To stretch or not to stretch?

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So this is a more what do you think post. This is kinda a touchy subject for me lately just because I'm really paranoid of mine. I know it doesn't matter to some people, but I tend to hate mine. So what am I talking about? Well......STRETCH MARKS!

In my head I have categorized stretch marks into four categories:
1. Tiny white/clear lines....that don't even count as stretch marks really. :)
2. Deep white trails.
3. Deep purple trails.
4. I had a baby and they were purple, but now they are white. But still noticable and very annoying. (This is the category I fit into.)

So I am bringing this up because of an incident that happened while I was at the pool today. I myself now wear a one piece to cover up my left over stretch marks, that look like an old map. I would like to wear a two piece but I'm not sure if that will ever happen again. So today at the pool there was a pregnant lady in a bikini. That part doesn't bug me I think pregnant bellies are beautiful. The lady was walking around, swimming, laying out and doing whatever she wanted. She also had huge and very dark purple stretch marks all over her belly. She looked like she could pop at any minute. She told me and a friend that was with me that she was due in Sept. So then I just felt bad for her because she was already so huge. So here is what I want to know. It didn't really bug me that much that she was wearing a bikini. I figured if she was comfortable with doing that more power to her. But there was several people staring at her, I even heard one lady say "someone need to go get her a cover-up, that is gross and I don't want to see it". I didn't really know what to say to that. So what is everyone's opinion? Do you cover them up, or are you proud and just realize that it is a part of that so just deal with it. Are you comfortable and have enough confidence to not worry about what other people think? I'm not sure what I would do, I think I would cover them up. I don't want my daughter to have self esteem issues when she gets older, but I'm not sure how to tell her that I think strech marks are beautiful. ???
Sorry if you read this and you didn't want to but that is what I was thinking about today so I figured I would write it all down.

Hope you all have a blessed week! L

To do list

So I don't know how many people know this my husband certainly does, but I like to make lists. I feel like they are stuck in my head driving me crazy until I write it down so that I don't forget something. I usually have two or three different list floating around my house, and probably one in my purse. I might even be a little OCD about it. Right now in my head I have a To do list/Goals for myself. So I decided just to write them down here.

1. EAT LESS SUGAR! I have become a sugar aholic. Seriously when you can sit down and eat a pound of peanut butter m & m's and not get a stomach ache you know you have a problem.
2. WORK OUT EVERY OTHER DAY...this is going to hopefully become my new addiction, something that I can't live without. So far I have made my abs so sore it hurts to move any which way.
3. SPEND MORE TIME PLAYING WITH DELIA DURING THE DAY...I think I am a good mom but sometime I am so concentrated on cleaning the house ect. that at the end of the day I feel like I didn't play with or read to D enough. GOAL: Read her three books a day!
4. MAKE A HOUSE CLEANING SCHEDULE...I don't mind doing some house work but I really had sweeping and mopping, cleaning the tub and the toilets. So I think if I had a schedule I would feel like my house was cleaner most of the time.
5. HAVE DINNER READY WHEN CHUCK GET HOME....this one I think is still in the dream stage, it is something I have always wanted to do, but I just don't seem to manage my time well enough in the afternoon to get this accomplished.

This is just a couple of things that are floating around in Lyndsey world right now. I will add to it later, I guess when I think of what I forgot.

Have a blessed day!

Only in Arkansas

Me and My Babe

D loved the river!

So last week we took a family vacation. We went to Ponca, Jasper and Eureka Springs Arkansas. It was Me, Chuck, Delia, and My Mom and Dad. It was so nice to get away. We rented cabins while we were there. The cabins were kinda a bust for the price of $300 a night. They claimed to be luxury cabins, but the kitchen was full of mouse poop, disgusting, and a few rather large ants. But other than that the trip was fun. The town of Ponca was a very small mountain town that has no cell phone reception unless you drive to the top of the mountain and the whole town has absolutely no TV reception. :) We went horse back riding, the men went fishing and we all enjoyed swimming in the river and just relaxing. The last day we stopped in Eureka Springs and did some shopping and got some Old Timey Pics taken. Me and Chuck had one of these pictures taken on our honeymoon at the same place so we had one taken with D in the picture now. They were a blast.

Delia loved the river! She loved to throw, chew and play with the rocks. The water was very clear and she was fasinated with all of the fish you could see. My pics are on facebook if you want to see them.

As a result of our trip we kinda liked to make fun of some of the things in AR, cause come on you are in AR you have to especially being an Okie at heart. Some of my closest friends are from AR and so I know everyone is not this way. We thought some of them were very funny but maybe it was just one of those we have been in the car to long listening to "Baby Einstein" videos moments. But we compiled a short list out of fun of "Only In AR", I hope you enjoy!


Only in Arkansas......


....will you see a "Johnny Jimmy's Gourmet Sandwiches" by a "Joe's Pizza and Pasta".
....will you see a man wearing camo shorts with a women's black bikini top on.
....the local convient store/grocery store is the biggest hangout for the locals.
....see a salon called "Twisted Scissors Hair and Day Spa" out in the middle on no where.
....see a 4-wheeler and a golf cart driving down a main highway.
....see a Confederate Flag on every other house or mailbox.
....see two family names on one mailbox.
....see a lady riding a horse down the side of the road wearing wranglers that are tucked into her jeans, a bikini top and drinking a bottle of beer.
....do you have to drive up the mountain to get cell phone reception.


Hope you all have a blessed week! Lyndsey

Should I write this???

So there are these people that we sometimes go out to eat with and I think that we won't be doing that any more. Let me explain. Every time we go out with them they complain about the food, the service, the menu, the price, ect....you get the picture. But they go even further than that. They are the kind of people that get their meal and eat 3/4 of it and then complain about it to the manager and refuse to pay for it, not just the one dish, but everything they have ordered. I understand if something is wrong and asking to have it fixed but that should be done when you receive the meal not after you have eaten most of it. They have done this more than once so much so that other people we are with or ourselves just cover the tab so that we don't have to suffer the embarrasment. I kinda want to talk to them about it but I really just don't have the nerve. I just hope their kid doesn't grow up thinking this is how it is done and that you don't have to pay for food at restaurants.

This is me...

So I have decided to start blogging I don’t know how often I will write or what I will write about or if anybody will even want to read it. Somedays I just have random thoughts that I would like to write down and get out of my head. If you know me you know that some times I say way to much so I am sure to offend somebody. I don’t want to hurt people but I am tired of trying to be someone to make other people happy so I am just going to be myself and if you don’t like that then don’t read it. So here’s to blogging and to showing the world who I am!